Monday, October 02, 2006

Different people have their own perspectives as to what an 'ideal' relationship would be like, to them. Or should i say, that they have different expectations of relationships they are in. Well, to me... i think it would be nice if:

- you come home everyday and there seem to be so much to talk about
- you're never tired of seeing each other
- you feel as free as a bird in terms of thoughts and speech
- you make the person, and God the centre of the relationship
- you cherish the other half, and being supportive in any aspect
- you make the other half know that he/she is important to you, no matter what you do..
- the love is strong that even other people around can feel it, even without having to saying it to them.
- both are transparent and open to/about anything.
- acceptance, time and understanding is top on the list -before one flares up.
- everything and anything is negotiable.

Wow, i AM a difficult girlfriend. Haha. I pity the person who'd be my other half. But, well, i'm gonna give up most of these expectations... cos i'm letting love override it. The feeling just sucks when you know you want so much for all these to happen, but the other half will feel very tied-up and suffocated, because he might not want it that way - to have his own space.

I struggle to give up my 'wants'... for you. Its okay, as long as you're happy.

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